Spiritual Trauma & Recovery Therapist in Venice

Heal the Wounds Faith Left Behind. Reclaim Connection on Your Terms.

In our therapy sessions, we will explore:

    •    Naming and validating the impact of spiritual abuse or religious harm

    •    Processing guilt, shame, fear, or grief tied to spiritual experiences

    •    Healing from gaslighting, fear-based teachings, or moral control

    •    Rebuilding trust in yourself, your intuition, and your voice

    •    Exploring identity outside of past belief systems

    •    Making peace with complex feelings with faith, God, or community

    •    Creating new meaning, boundaries, or spiritual practices (if desired)

    •    Navigating relationships with family and friends tied to old beliefs

Spiritual trauma can come from experiences where religion, faith, or spiritual authority was used to control, shame, silence, or harm you. Whether it’s from a rigid upbringing, a high-control group, purity culture, religious abuse, or exclusion due to identity, these wounds often run deep. They don’t just shake your beliefs—they can damage your sense of self, safety, and belonging.

As a licensed psychotherapist and former medical doctor trained in trauma-informed and spiritually-sensitive care, I help individuals recover from spiritual trauma by holding space for grief, anger, and confusion—while supporting you in rediscovering your inner wisdom and personal truth.

You don’t have to throw away your soul to heal from spiritual pain. And you don’t have to go back to what hurt you to feel whole again.  Let’s help you reclaim your spiritual freedom—whether that means rediscovery, reinvention, or release.

I provide therapy in Beverly Hills, Brentwood, Venice, Marina Del Rey, Culver City, Mar Vista, Playa Del Rey, West Los Angeles, Pacific Palisades, Palms, and Santa Monica.

Spiritual trauma and recovery therapist services are essential for those who feel lost, betrayed, or harmed in the name of religion or spiritual belief. Many individuals carry invisible wounds from experiences tied to faith communities, religious leaders, or spiritual practices. These wounds can lead to feelings of isolation, anxiety, guilt, or even a crisis of identity. If this sounds familiar, you're not alone — and healing is possible.

At Steven Kilmann, LMFT, we offer compassionate, professional care for those seeking spiritual trauma and recovery therapy in Venice Beach. This therapy helps individuals explore and process harmful spiritual experiences and rebuild their inner sense of peace and self-worth.

What is Spiritual Trauma?

Spiritual trauma occurs when a person’s core beliefs are used against them or when they are emotionally, mentally, or physically harmed in a religious or spiritual setting.

This trauma can arise from:

  • Abusive religious institutions or leaders

  • High-control or cult-like environments

  • Rejection due to sexual orientation or identity

  • Spiritual manipulation or coercion

  • Fear-based belief systems that cause guilt or shame

Common Signs of Spiritual Trauma

Many people are unaware that their distress is connected to spiritual harm. Here are a few signs that spiritual trauma might be affecting your well-being:

  • Anxiety or panic linked to religious settings or discussions

  • Nightmares or intrusive memories about past religious experiences

  • Deep feelings of guilt or shame, even when no wrongdoing occurred

  • Fear of punishment or abandonment by a higher power

  • Struggles with self-worth or identity

How Spiritual Trauma and Recovery Therapy Helps

Spiritual trauma and recovery therapy offers a supportive environment to explore difficult experiences without judgment. As a licensed Spiritual Trauma and Recovery Therapist in Venice Beach, Steven Kilmann helps clients safely work through emotional pain while honoring their personal beliefs.

Therapy goals may include:

  1. Understanding and validating your experiences

  2. Rebuilding trust in yourself and others

  3. Developing healthy boundaries with religious or spiritual communities

  4. Finding meaning and connection beyond trauma

  5. Restoring emotional and psychological safety

Why Choose Steven Kilmann, LMFT

Steven Kilmann brings years of clinical experience to his work with clients experiencing spiritual trauma. His approach is grounded, practical, and client-centered.

What makes Steven's practice stand out:

  • Located near Venice Beach, easily accessible for locals

  • Experienced in trauma-informed care with a spiritual understanding

  • Comfortable, non-religious environment for healing

  • Personalized therapy plans tailored to each individual’s history and goals

You don't have to walk through this pain alone. Therapy with Steven offers a path to recovery and wholeness.

Long-Term Benefits of Recovery Therapy

Spiritual trauma recovery isn’t just about addressing the past. It’s about reclaiming your present and building a life rooted in clarity, confidence, and peace.

Clients often report:

  • Increased self-confidence and clarity about their beliefs

  • Emotional resilience in the face of spiritual triggers

  • Freedom from shame-based thinking

  • Renewed relationships with themselves and others

  • A deeper connection to personal meaning or spirituality, free of fear

What to Expect in a Session

Sessions are private, client-led, and paced according to your comfort.

You can expect:

  • A safe, non-judgmental space

  • Open discussions about your beliefs, doubts, and history

  • Practical strategies to reduce anxiety and distress

  • Trauma-informed support, including grounding techniques

Steven may also incorporate mindfulness and evidence-based approaches to help regulate your nervous system and bring calm to your body and mind.

Who This Therapy is For

This therapy is right for you if you’ve experienced:

  • Abuse or manipulation by religious leaders or groups

  • Rejection or shame based on spiritual beliefs

  • Internal conflict between personal identity and spiritual teachings

  • Chronic anxiety or guilt about “being good enough” spiritually

It’s also helpful for those leaving high-demand religious groups and adjusting to life outside of that framework.

Frequently Asked Questions

How is this different from religious counseling?


Spiritual trauma therapy focuses on your experience, not enforcing any doctrine. The goal is healing, not conversion or adherence to any specific belief system.

Do I need to have a specific religion to seek therapy?


No. Therapy is open to people of all beliefs, backgrounds, or no religion at all.

Is this covered by insurance?


Steven offers concierge therapy services, which means a personalized experience with no insurance restrictions. You may be able to submit receipts for out-of-network reimbursement.

Connecting with Community Resources

As part of his integrative approach, Steven may suggest resources that align with your healing journey. For example, many clients explore further support through our work in addiction recovery or neurodivergent therapy if those are part of your overall mental health needs.

Take the Next Step

Healing from spiritual trauma is possible. It begins with acknowledgment and the willingness to explore what’s been hurting.

If you are looking for Spiritual Trauma and Recovery Therapy in Venice Beach, or want to speak with a trusted Spiritual Trauma and Recovery Therapist Venice, reach out to Steven Kilmann, LMFT today. You deserve a future free from shame and fear — and filled with self-acceptance and peace.